Teens often struggle with being dependent on their parents while having a strong desire to be independent. They may also feel overwhelmed by the emotional and physical changes they are going through. The teen-age group usually trust in themselves, decide on everything as them like it, not be carefully, likely to act on a risk situation, curious and this age was a time to appear the behavior on vivid such as countering them parents, not complaint, be offensive, likely to use violent with decision and about sex or having unprotected sex. Sometime it’s like they need to solicit the interesting but in the truth all of them behavior that have cause.
Cause of problem’s teen-age got a risk motive both about them and surroundings.
Start from decreasing all a risk motive about them, so a cause was from them family such as they don’t receive a agree with them family, be seem like a black sheep, not come up to family’s expectations. That make the teen-age got a social countering, don’t accept a rules of stand together. From this state it make the teen-age have a good attitude with a problem of that behavior.
A risk motive from them family. Some family admit everything that they’s children want to because they don’t know the way to persuade for make the children obedient them, some people leave the children off cause they never know the problem of children, some people use a forcing but it never can solve a problem also make a conflict and Finally the children don’t want to come back home. Parents of teens often find themselves noticing only the problems, and they may get in the habit of giving mostly negative feedback and criticism. Although teens need feedback, they respond better to positive feedback.
